Seasons of the Heart

Window cleaning chemical injected into fast food hamburger meat

2010-01-06T08:05:00.001-05:00

Window cleaning chemical injected into fast food hamburger meat

Huh? What?!? You've Got To Be Kidding!!!

2009-11-19T16:14:00.004-05:00

I found the following news story the other day and thought it was just so crazy. If I couldn't hang my clothes out to dry in the warm air and sunshine each summer, I just don't know what I'd do.

Carin Froehlich has help from her granddaughter Ava as they hang some laundry in the front yard of her residence in Perkasie Reuters –By Jon Hurdle – Wed Nov 18, 11:32 am ET

PERKASIE, Pennsylvania (Reuters) – Carin Froehlich pegs her laundry to three clotheslines strung between trees outside her 18th-century farmhouse, knowing that her actions annoy local officials who have asked her to stop.

Froehlich is among the growing number of people across America fighting for the right to dry their laundry outside against a rising tide of housing associations who oppose the practice despite its energy-saving green appeal.

Although there are no formal laws in this southeast Pennsylvania town against drying laundry outside, a town official called Froehlich to ask her to stop drying clothes in the sun. And she received two anonymous notes from neighbors saying they did not want to see her underwear flapping about.

"They said it made the place look like trailer trash," she said, in her yard across the street from a row of neat, suburban houses. "They said they didn't want to look at my 'unmentionables.'"

Froehlich says she hangs her underwear inside. The effervescent 54-year-old is one of a growing number of Americans demanding the right to dry laundry on clotheslines despite local rules and a culture that frowns on it.

Their interests are represented by Project Laundry List, a group that argues people can save money and reduce carbon emissions by not using their electric or gas dryers, according to the group's executive director, Alexander Lee.

Widespread adoption of clotheslines could significantly reduce U.S. energy consumption, argued Lee, who said dryer use accounts for about 6 percent of U.S. residential electricity use.

Florida, Utah, Maine, Vermont, Colorado, and Hawaii have passed laws restricting the rights of local authorities to stop residents using clotheslines. Another five states are considering similar measures, said Lee, 35, a former lawyer who quit to run the non-profit group.

'RIGHT TO HANG'

His principal opponents are the housing associations such as condominiums and townhouse communities that are home to an estimated 60 million Americans, or about 20 percent of the population. About half of those organizations have 'no hanging' rules, Lee said, and enforce them with fines.

Carl Weiner, a lawyer for about 50 homeowners associations in suburban Philadelphia, said the no-hanging rules are usually included by the communities' developers along with regulations such as a ban on sheds or commercial vehicles.

The no-hanging rules are an aesthetic issue, Weiner said.

"The consensus in most communities is that people don't want to see everybody else's laundry."

He said opposition to clotheslines may ease as more people understand it can save energy and reduce greenhouse gases.

"There is more awareness of impact on the environment," he said. "I would not be surprised to see people questioning these restrictions."

For Froehlich, the "right to hang" is the embodiment of the American tradition of freedom.

"If my husband has a right to have guns in the house, I have a right to hang laundry," said Froehlich, who is writing a book on the subject.

Besides, it saves money. Line-drying laundry for a family of five saves $83 a month in electric bills, she said.

Kevin Firth, who owns a two-bedroom condominium in a Dublin, Pennsylvania housing association, said he was fined $100 by the association for putting up a clothesline in a common area.

"It made me angry and upset," said Firth, a 27-year-old carpenter. "I like having the laundry drying in the sun. It's something I have always done since I was a little kid."

(Editing by Mark Egan and Paul Simao)

Raising Monarchs

2009-04-24T14:30:00.005-04:00

In May look for milkweed plants. On the underneath side of a leaf you may find a tiny, yellow-green oval. That's a Monarch egg. Clip that stalk. Put the stalk in a water-filled vase and watch for the egg to hatch a few days later. Keep feeding your caterpillar milkweed leaves by changing out the milkweed stalks for new ones. When the caterpillar is almost 2 inches long, it's time for it to form its chrysalis. Try placing the vase under a small table. The milkweed leaves need to brush the bottom of the table. The caterpillar will crawl onto the bottom of the table and form its chrysalis. Once the chrysalis turns black (after 1-2 weeks), you'll know your butterfly will emerge in the next 24 hours. Once it emerges and its wings have dried (don't touch it during this phase!), you can coax it onto your hand with sugar water. Then it's time to take it outside and release it!!

If you'd like more instructions you can visit: Rearing Monarchs

Happy Spring!!

Healthy Guacamole

2009-03-09T13:20:00.017-04:00

At this point you may be getting the impression that I'm starting a food blog. No worries, every post won't be about food. However, food is an important part of life and we all like to see what other people are eating and enjoying with their families. Well, if you're anything like me you do. I, myself, get in a rut from time to time and get weary of eating the same dishes over and over again. It's then that I go searching the net for new ideas.

I'm not a real avocado lover, but I know they're good for me. So, the way I go about getting those added nutrients in my diet is by making a healthy Guacamole Dip. Unfortunately, sometimes what you find in the store and even in some homemade recipes, are dips loaded with additives and bad fats from oils or sour cream. Tasty though it may be, good for the heart and waistline they're not!

This particular recipe comes from my Country Life Vegetarian Cookbook. I've taken the liberty of adding a couple of extra ingredients. For me, their recipe just lacked that extra punch of flavor that I needed. Feel free to experiment with the ingredients to suite your own taste, but try to avoid ingredients that are high in bad fats.

One of my favorite methods for enjoying this dip is by simply spreading it over toasted whole wheat bread. Mmm, mmmm! Other ideas (besides the usual tortilla chips) are using it as a spread on a sandwich or in a burrito wrap.

GUACAMOLE

2 c. mashed avocado (approx. 2 medium avocados)
1 t. garlic powder
1 1/2 t. onion powder
1 t. salt
1 - 1 1/2 T. lemon juice
3/4 c. finely chopped tomatoes
*1/8 t. cumin
*pinch or more of cayenne pepper

Scoop out avocados into bowl, mash well. Add remaining ingredients and mix together. Chill.

YIELD: 2 3/4 cups
Ingredients marked with an asterisk are my own special touch.

Picture borrowed from: CountryLiving

Southwestern Beans & Rice

2009-03-06T13:36:00.006-05:00

I thought I'd share this recipe that I'm taking to Potluck tomorrow for church. The recipe comes from my Light and Tasty cookbook from Taste of Home. I've made it before and one gentleman in particular, always compliments me on it. I usually add some soy cheddar shreds and I'm even considering throwing in some multi grain Penne Pasta today. I may find that it'll need some added water if I go ahead with the pasta.

Southwestern Beans and Rice

1 medium green pepper, diced
1 medium onion, chopped
2 garlic cloves, minced
1 T. olive oil
2 1/2c. water
1 c. uncooked long grain rice
1/2 t. ground cumin
1/8 t. ground turmeric
1 can (15 ounces) black beans, rinsed and drained
1 can (10 ounces) diced tomatoes and green chilies, undrained
1 package (10 ounces) frozen corn, thawed

In a large nonstick skillet, saute the green pepper, onion and garlic in oil for 3 minutes. Stir in the broth, rice, cumin and turmeric; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and simmer for 15 minutes or until rice is tender. Add beans, tomatoes and corn; heat through.

YIELD: 8 servings

Nutritional Analysis: One serving (3/4 cup) equals 198 calories, 3 g fat (1 g saturated fat), 1 mg cholesterol, 339 mg sodium, 37 g carbohydrate, 5 g fiber, 7 g protein.

Photo borrowed from: Knorr

Gardening Techniques and Tools

2009-02-05T14:12:00.016-05:00

Well, it's bitter cold here in Northwest Indiana, but regardless, our minds are turned toward our vegetable garden. We've chosen all the various foods we will be growing and are waiting for the seeds to arrive. No doubt, I'll be cutting things a bit close this year due the fact that I haven't even begun my indoor seed starting yet. However, since the seeds haven't arrived I have little choice, but to wait.

In the meantime I've been scanning the Internet for various garden sites to glean as much information as possible in order to have the most productive garden. We've been gardening for several years, but we still feel somewhat like novices. There is so much to learn about gardening. So much so, that I think we'll be learning about it as long as we're alive.

As every gardener knows, having a vegetable garden is hard work and can be taxing on the body. Not that that's necessarily a bad thing, but if I'm experiencing a lot of pain while gardening, it does little to motivate me to get out there and work it.

With the exception of one summer, we have always planted bush beans. The year I tried pole beans I wasn't very successful because the method I chose to support the beans was not great. As a result, I gave up and went back to what worked-- bush beans. With each passing year, we have been growing more produce to be stored up for the winter months. This means, more work and more bending. More bending means more pain in my lower back. Ouch!

Near the end of December I jumped on-line to search for a better way to support pole beans as I wanted to try and grow them again for this summer. That's when I found Donald. To use the phrase spoken often by The Pioneer Woman, "lawsee mercy!" Donald has posted lots of instructional gardening videos. For me, his site is a gold mine. I've learned so much by watching his videos and I'm definitely going to try his technique for growing pole beans this summer. Check out these:

Be sure and watch how he supports his tomatoes too. In my opinion, it's brilliant. Just where was he when we were first starting out, anyway? :)

Today I visited the Growing Wisdom website. While there I saw this wonderful tool called the Hatfield Transplanter. Heard of it? It would certainly come in handy and save my back to boot. When I showed it to my husband he got pretty excited about it. He told me to find out how much it costs so we could get one. Well, as wonderful as it is, it's not in our budget right now so I'm putting it on our wish list for future purchases. I thought I share the video on how it's used. Prepare to be amazed.

Cranberry Goodness

2008-12-24T19:49:00.006-05:00

It's that time of year. The time when Cranberries are plentiful. I wanted to share with you two of my favorite holiday recipes that are loaded with this deliciously, tart fruit.

CRANBERRY APPLE PIE

4 c. thinly sliced peeled baking apples
1 c. fresh or frozen cranberries
1 c. sugar
2 T. cornstarch
1 t. lemon juice
1 t. ground cinnamon
Pastry for double-crust pie (9 inches)
1 T. butter or margarine

METHOD:
In mixing bowl, combine apples, cranberries, sugar, cornstarch, lemon juice and cinnamon. Line a 9-inch pie pan with half of pastry. Spoon filling into crust; dot with butter. Top with a lattice crust. Bake at 400 for 40-50 minutes or until bubbly and golden brown. Yield: 8 servings

This next dessert is a cranberry crumb cake. It's light and easy to prepare. The flavor of cranberry comes through in every sweet-tart bite, and the streusel topping looks so pretty. Simply divine!!

CRANBERRY CRUMB CAKE
Yield: 9 servings

1 c. all-purpose flour
1/2 c. plus 1/3 c. sugar, divided
2 t. baking powder
1/2 t salt
1 egg, lightly beaten
1/2 c. fat-free milk (or soy)
1 T. orange juice (or 1 t. orange extract)
1 T. oil
1/4 t. almond extract
2 c. fresh or frozen cranberries, chopped

TOPPING:
1/4 c. all-purpose flour
3 T. sugar
2 T. cold butter

METHOD:
In a bowl, combine the flour, 1/2 cup sugar, baking powder and salt. Combine the egg, milk, orange juice, oil and extract; stir into dry ingredients, Spoon into an 8-inch square baking dish coated with nonstick cooking spray. Combine cranberries and remaining sugar; spoon over batter.
For topping, combine flour and sugar in a small bowl; cut in the butter until crumbly. Sprinkle over cranberries. Bake at 375 for 35-45 minutes or until edges begin to pull away from sides of pan. Refrigerate leftovers.

These are both great country desserts and perfect to serve at Christmastime. I know this is Christmas eve and you have probably already baked all that you're going to, but do try these while cranberries are still easy to get. I don't think you'll be the least bit be disappointed.

Have a wonderful Christmas tomorrow, and may the New Year bring you more blessings than you can possibly dream of.

A Must See Video

2008-11-03T13:03:00.004-05:00

In our home, we do not observe Halloween and I realize that the holiday has passed, but this video is still relevant and you really should see it. It's important that you read labels carefully before you make a food purchase. As for me, I plan to avoid any foods that come from China-- period!

This, That, And The Other Thing

2008-03-24T11:11:00.006-04:00

My youngest nephew came over, spent the night on Saturday and got to spend the entire day with us on Sunday. It was nice to have him here. He didn't cause a bit of trouble and really did a good job at lending a hand to my #2 teenage son, who spent several hours spreading stone in our lane. It's been so unusually rainy this winter and due to the large amounts we've received, our property is totally saturated. Some areas of our property look like ponds. We've even have geese fly down and spend the night here.

Since moving into this old farmhouse about six years ago, we haven't been able to lay a proper drive. Oh, we've had good intentions to do so, but one thing or another kept getting in the way. However, it's gotten to the point where we just couldn't ignore it any longer. Thanks be to God that we had enough in tax returns to cover at least part of the stone purchase. We weren't able to get all the stone that is needed to finish it completely, but it's enough to get us by, at least for a little while.

While the boys were out working and later, bike riding, I was busy inside trying to get my grocery list and meal plans for this week prepared. I was also able to get four loads of laundry done and managed to make two batches of wheat gluten steaks. I sent some home with my sister. She's never had them before and I'm hoping that her family will all like them.

During our dinner yesterday, my nephew wanted to watch "Honey I Blew Up the Kid". (He borrowed it from my MIL who happens to live next door to us). I didn't have any plans to sit and watch the entire movie as I had already seen it many years ago and didn't recall it to be very good. However, the longer I sat, the more I got sucked in... it was much funnier than I remembered. It was fun cause we sat there together just engrossed and then all of a sudden, something funny would happen and we would all burst out laughing at the same time.

It's the little things that we'll remember the longest!

Herbs For Your Health

2008-03-21T13:58:00.006-04:00

Well, Spring is inching ever closer and with that comes planting season. I have already ordered my vegetable seeds and thanks to my generous neighbor, I have two flats of heirloom tomato plants sitting on my dining room table that have started. I will soon be ordering some fruit plants too. Thanks to Amy, I have learned about this family home industry, and am planning to get a few fruit plants from them. After that, I am seriously going to take a look at purchasing some herb seeds. Not only will this be an asset to my meal preparations, but what I'm mostly interested in, is using them to create healing medicines for my family. My husband and I have been talking about how important we feel it is to be as self-sufficient as possible. Particularly as we see the world becoming more and more unstable all the time.

In our family, we try avoid pharmaceutical drugs as far as possible, as we believe that God gave us every herb bearing seed, not only for our food, but for our healing as well. My thoughts are: Why use synthetic drugs that can cause life-threatening side effects when God has provided plants that are perfectly healthful and natural? ... drugs are extremely costly and they don't work for the cure, but rather to mask symptoms instead.

So that said, this year we are on a quest to learn all that we can about herbs and their medicinal properties. I found a small Herb course on-line, offered by Cheri at Sweet Hollow Farm. Part of Cheri's testimony is that they were a homeschooling, Christian family, dwelling in the City. One day the Lord spoke to her heart and showed her that they were too reliant on others for everything in their life. She saw that she needed to rely more on God for their sustenance and so, they left the city behind for country life and have been there for nine years now. Through her journey, she has learned much and is now offering to pass on that knowledge to others. I plan on taking advantage of it. :)

I would love to hear from any of you who have made this a way of life. I would really like to learn how to make tinctures, salves, balms and any other type of natural healing methods, using herbs.

I found a website some time back that sells herbs in bulk. Many of you may know it. It's called: Bulk Herb Store It's owned and operated by Shoshanna Pearl, the daughter of Michael & Debi Pearl. While at the Bulk Herb Store, I saw several books that can be purchased to help us on our quest for Herbal knowledge. I was particularly interested in the book: "The How-to Herb Book". I didn't really want to pay what the Bulk Herb Store was asking, so hunted around the web for a lower price. I found one. It's at: More Than Alive. I often will purchase books used, from Amazon, but even there, the price was higher.

Please let me know if you have this book. I'm interested to know how you like it and if it's been useful in your home.

Soy Great! Patties (Burgers)

2008-03-10T21:13:00.009-04:00

In anticipation of warmer weather, I've had a hankerin for a vegan burger. I grabbed my Guilt Free Gourmet cook book off the shelf and started flipping through it's pages. My eyes landed on the Soy Great! Patties and since I already had some soaked soybeans on hand I decided that these were the burgers that I would make.

Aside from a little planning, as you will need to soak your soybeans ahead of time, these are very easy to prepare. Perhaps you may think they don't look all that appealing, but remember, you can't always judge a burger by it's color. If I'd had a garden fresh tomato, a few sprouts and a nice round dill pickle, it would have been perfect! Even without them though, the flavor was surprisingly, quite yummy.

INGREDIENTS:
1 c. *Soaked soy beans
2 T. Nutritional yeast flakes
1/2 t. Salt
1/2 t. Onion powder
1/4 t. Garlic powder
1/2 c. Water
1 T. **Chicken-Style Seasoning
3/4 c. Rolled Oats
1 t. Italian seasoning

* Soak 1 C. Soy beans in 4 C. water overnight. Drain and use 1 C. for recipe and freeze remainder for future use.

**See recipe below or you can use any type of vegetarian chicken-like seasoning you have on hand. Bill's Best Chick' nish is popular.

METHOD:
Combine all ingredients EXCEPT oats in blender and grind to fine consistency. Pour over oats, stir, and let stand for 10 minutes. form into patties. Brown on both sides on a lightly sprayed non-stick griddle. Cover while browning. Transfer to sprayed cookie sheet and bake at 350 degrees for about 10 minutes on each side.

YIELDS: 8 medium size burgers

These patties are even good cold in sandwiches with a bit of Vegenaise
Serve them over rice with gravy or spaghetti sauce.
Try breaking them up over a baked potato topped with a dollup of soy sour cream.
Make up a double recipe of these, and freeze all the extra patties for future use.
You can eat them plain. They're great as an entree with vegetables.

As for the Chicken Seasoning, I like to make a double batch and keep it on hand for many of the dishes I cook. It's very versatile and can be used in anything you want to take on a chicken flavor.

**CHICKEN-STYLE SEASONING
1 1/3 c. nutritional yeast flakes
1 T. onion powder
1/2 t. celery seed
2 t. garlic powder
1/2 t. turmeric
2 T. barley malt powder (opt.)
3 T. sea salt
1 t. dried parsley
1 T. paprika

Combine all ingredients and bled until powdery.

What's For Dinner

2008-02-19T19:48:00.010-05:00

I had to make a last minute change to our menu tonight. I was planning to make cream of broccoli soup, but I forgot to soak my soybeans last night so that I could make soy milk with our SoyaPower soy milk maker. Therefore, I had to change things up a bit.

I decided I'd make tomorrow's dinner instead. Along with our baked potatoes, I made curried lentils over rice. Lentils aren't normally something that #2 son enjoys eating and when he saw them cooking on the stove he wasn't very thrilled. I told him to hold off on sharing his opinion until he tried them.

I got this recipe some time ago from The Urban Homemaker. I went back to her website tonight to see if I could find it, but couldn't. Here it is:

CURRIED LENTILS
1 T. oil
1-1 1/2 c. chopped onions
2 cloves minced garlic or 1 t. powder
1-1 1/2 c. rinsed lentils
5 c. water
1/4 c. tomato powder or 1 - 14oz. can tomatoes
1/2 t. cumin
1/2 t. ginger
1/2 t. turmeric
1/2 t. curry powder
dash cayenne pepper to taste

Sauté onions in oil in a large pot for two minutes. Add garlic and sauté briefly. Add all remaining ingredients and bring to a boil. Simmer until lentils are soft, yet firm. (In other words, when you remove them from the pot they should still have a nice round shape and not be mushy like mashed potatoes.) Serve hot over rice.

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To make the rice, put 1 tablespoon of Soy Garden Spread (or whatever kind of butter/margarine you like) in a 2 quart sauce pot and heat just until melted. Then add 2 cups of long grain white rice (not instant) to the pot, stirring until the rice is well coated. Heat rice until lightly browned, watching it carefully so that it doesn't burn. Once rice is browned to your liking, pour in four cups of water. Lastly, add 1/4 cup of nutritional yeast flakes and 2 Tablespoons of your favorite seasoning. (I use Herbamare Original) Stir well and place a tight fitting lid on the pot.

Next, bring your water to a rolling boil, then turn the heat down to simmer and let rice cook until all the water has evaporated. This takes about 20 minutes. Avoid lifting the lid during cooking time as this will let too much steam escape and your rice won't cook properly. Also, it isn't necessary to stir the rice while it's cooking. Rice is better left alone and only stirred just before serving.

Well, I got a resounding A+ from everyone for tonight's dinner. In fact #2 son said, "These are the only lentils I'll ever eat mom." Overall, it was a simple meal to prepare and because it was delicious, it made it on the kids list for "make that again" and on mom's list of "health food". Next time, I'll try to make it with brown rice instead. This will boost the nutritional value, but because of time restraints tonight, I opted for the white rice. Happy eating!

Staying The Course

2008-02-17T15:15:00.006-05:00

Have you ever punished a child only to forget a day or two later that you did it? It seems like this has been happening to me more and more lately. Unfortunately, I have a couple teenagers who, once in a while, will take advantage of the fact that I forget. Sometimes on purpose, but other times because they've forgotten too.

Last week I grounded my #2 son from the computer for a week. A couple of days later he comes up to me and says, "Mom can I get on the computer? I have all my chores done." I give my permission and go on about my business. A good deal of time passes and I notice that he's still sitting at the computer doing his thing. I politely tell him he needs to shut it down and get busy with other things. He says, "OK." Again, I walk away to continue my business. Several minutes go by, and just as I suspect, there he is still planted firmly in front of the PC. All of a sudden the light bulb goes off in my head and I remember that I had grounded him two days before precisely because he wouldn't get off the computer when I asked him to.

At this point I'm clearly upset. Firstly, at myself, for not remembering that I punished him. Secondly, because he asked my permission. And thirdly, because this seems to be a repeated offense with him. (Not doing what he's asked when he's asked). It was then that I decided that I needed to write his punishment on the calendar so that I wouldn't forget.

This boy has not given up trying to get me to shorten his punishment though. Every once in a while he will approach me to see if he can use the computer to work on this project or that project, but so far, I've stood firm and have even had to go so far as to include an addendum. I told him that for every time he asks to use the PC, an extra day will be tacked on to his sentence. So far, so good.

On Again - Off Again

2008-02-14T09:21:00.009-05:00

Last week I went in to my chiropractor's office for my weekly adjustment. I mentioned to him that I started walking on my treadmill again. It was here that I thought he would say something like, "Good for you!" or "That's great!", but instead he gave me a line something like this: "Running and walking won't do much, if anything, to help you lose weight. What you need to start doing is lifting weights." With that, he left the room and left me feeling discouraged and a bit angry! After all, it took quite a bit of getting myself psyched up enough to start walking again-- he really knocked the wind out of my sails and I haven't been back on the treadmill since.

However, I am even more discouraged about this weight that I've gained and I know that I've got to do SOMETHING. So, with his "words of wisdom" still ringing in my ears, I've decided to do a bit of research to find out what I can do to make a change. Going to a gym is entirely out of our budget, so my goal was to find something I could successfully do here at home.

I am learning that it's best to combine Cardio exercise with strength training to get the best results. Strength training, in particular, is important to keep my bones from thinning and becoming weak as I get older. Also, it will help with balance control and reduce or eliminate falls in older years. In the past, I probably wouldn't have paid much attention to the balance aspect, but as I'm in the caregiving practice now, I see balance issues with older people all the time.

I'm also reading that strength training is crucial to weight control, because individuals who have more muscle mass have a higher metabolic rate. Here's a quote from WebMD.

"Muscle is active tissue that consumes calories while stored fat uses very little energy. Strength training can provide up to a 15% increase in metabolic rate, which is enormously helpful for weight loss and long-term weight control."

During my research, I think I've found a product that can help me obtain much of the ideal strength training I need, while helping me to target my core muscles at the same time. It's called the BOSU Balance Trainer. If you'd like to know more the BOSU, this website briefly talks about it.

I won't be able to get one right away. It will take a bit of time before I can save that much. We are are on very tight budget and what little I've been able to set aside is going into buying seeds for this summer's vegetable garden. This by no means is a bad thing. After all, part of getting fit, is eating properly. You can't have one without the other, right?

In the meantime, I will continue to read and yes, I will get back on the treadmill. I probably won't get back to it until this Sunday. For me, starting at the beginning of the week rather than the middle or the end of the week makes much more sense.

New Links

2008-02-07T17:56:00.003-05:00

I've added several new links to my blog I thought you might like to take a look at. You'll find them on the right-hand side of my sidebar. Under Homeschool Circle I added "The HomeScholar" I've also added an entirely new category called Love and Marriage. All the links there are new. Lastly, under the heading Special Links are two new sites: "Christian Homemaker" and "Christian Homesteaders".

I seem to have several people coming to my blog, interested in the links I list. I place them here because they have, in some way, edified me and I want to share them with others in hopes that they'll be helpful to you too. Please don't mistake they're being listed here for the idea that I agree with everything they teach or promote. However, there was enough there that I believed they would be a positive benefit to those who may visit them. As with anything, we are to search it out, comparing them with the word of God. As often happens, links change, get replaced or go off-line. If you ever find a link that is dead or inappropriate, please email me right away and it will be removed promptly. Thanks!

Calling All Homeschooling Bird Enthusiasts

2008-02-02T19:09:00.000-05:00

Hands-On Science Helps Homeschoolers (and Scientists) Learn More About Birds
The new Homeschooler's Guide to Project FeederWatch is available online:

Ithaca, New York— Homeschool students across North America can learn about science and have fun while they count birds and record information that scientists need to understand the movements and abundance of feeder birds. Project FeederWatch, a citizen-science project from the Cornell Lab of Ornithology and Bird Studies Canada, is a perfect fit for the homeschool curriculum. The Homeschooler's Guide to Project FeederWatch is now available online at www.feederwatch.org. This guide highlights specific ways Project FeederWatch can foster inquiry-based learning in math, science, art, and other disciplines.

Project FeederWatch focuses on something children are naturally interested in: birds. "Birds move, they come in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes, and they are easy to watch," says project leader David Bonter.

For 20 years FeederWatch participants from all across North America have tallied the number and kinds of birds that visit their feeders between November and April. Scientists use the data to track where the birds are across the continent and how their numbers change through time. Some of the most dramatic changes revealed by data collected over the last two decades may be related to changes in climate.

"We're seeing hummingbirds much farther north than usual during the winter," says Bonter. "Warblers, wrens, woodpeckers, and other insect-eaters are also lingering longer into the northern winter, possibly because of warmer temperatures. Bird-count data gathered in the coming years will really help us focus on these trends and what might be causing them."

The curriculum is available to download for free at the Project FeederWatch web site. An annual participation fee of $15 ($12 for Lab of Ornithology members, $35 Canadian) covers the cost of the Project FeederWatch research kit, with useful materials for a homeschooling program, including instructions and a calendar that features bird photos taken by project participants. The fee also helps support web site development, participant support and education, and data analysis.

First-time participants receive a colorful poster to help them identify birds, and the FeederWatch Handbook, filled with information about bird feeding and the value of FeederWatch data. Participants also receive Winter Bird Highlights, featuring results from the project, and a subscription to the Cornell Lab of Ornithology's newsletter, BirdScope. Canadian participants receive BirdWatch Canada from Bird Studies Canada.

U.S. residents can sign up by calling (800) 843-2473 or by visiting www.feederwatch.org.

A No-Stress Approach to Kid's Chores

2008-01-29T19:20:00.000-05:00

I recently started receiving a free marriage and family magazine by Focus on the Family. This morning I couldn't sleep and got up earlier than usual. I hadn't had a chance to read the magazine yet so took a bit of time to look it over before I started my morning devotion. I wanted to share with you this particular article. Perhaps you'll have the need to use Heather's creative idea some day. But hopefully not. Happy Parenting!

YOUR CHORES OR MINE?
by Heather Trent Beers

I'm amazed how two empty trash cans left by the driveway can transform me from Mother of Year to a raging inferno in two seconds flat.

One morning, I entered my 15-year-old son's room. "Jacob," I said. I waited for eye contact.

Yes, Mom?" His eyes darted between the screen and my face.
I'm heading out on an errand. Please bring the trash cans in before I get home in an hour."

"Uh-huh."

Now, I've learned two things about Jacob. First, I must say his name and make eye contact. Second, I need to make him repeat what I've said. Both are helpful in the "But I Didn't Hear You" battle.

"What will you do?"

"Bring in the trash cans."

"When?"

"Before you get home."

"Which will be when?"

"In one hour."

"Good. See you in an hour."

I left with a spring in my step. He's growing into a responsible young man. An hour later when I came home, however, the cans were still at the end of the driveway. Goodbye, June Cleaver. Hello, Mommy Dearest. I fumed as I pulled into the garage.

"Why do I even bother?" I stomped to the end of the driveway, jerked the cans off the ground and wheeled them to the garage. My blood pressure soared, and my heart thumped wildly.

I knew Jacob needed a consequence for his inaction, but all I could think about were the chores that awaited me, and here I was doing his simple chore on top of it! Suddenly, I smiled. If I'm doing his chores, he can do mine. The simple brilliance of the plan filled me with hope. I whispered fervently, "God, please let this work!"

Upstairs, I stopped by my son's room. "Hi, Jacob!" I was pleased with my friendly tone. "Hi, Mom!" He flashed a quick smile and continued his game. "You left the trash cans at the curb, so I brought them in." "Oh... I'm sorry," he said, grimacing. He looked at me, but his fingers continued tapping. In the past, I would have made a smart remark like " 'Sorry' doesn't change things." This time I said, "That's all right. You can do one of my chores. The laundry needs folding." Jacob froze. He knew he'd been had, and it was fair and square.

While he hung shirts and folded socks, I read a few pages of a novel. I thought about what just happened. Bringing in trash cans: One minute. Folding laundry: Six minutes. Five extra minutes reading with my feet propped up. I could get used to this.

I whispered a prayer of thanks.

Two days later, I asked 9-year-old Rebekah to put her shoes away before lunch. I went through the "Say Her Name and Maker Her Repeat My Instructions" deal. She passed with flying colors. Lunch came and went, but the shoes didn't. So I put them away myself, without saying a word or sighing like a martyr. I was planning my next five-minute escape.

After lunch, I said, "Rebekah, you didn't put your shoes away, so I did it." "Oh, I'm sorry, Mom," came the usual reply.

"That's OK. I need to vacuum the den, so you can do that for me." Rebekah looked as if I'd slapped her. "That's not fair!" she wailed, eyes wide with shock. "Well, it's certainly not fair for me to do my chores and yours. Since I did yours, you can do one of mine." Her face fell. She hates vacuuming, so she didn't do it with the best attitude. But it was done, and I got my five-minute reading date.

Over the next several days, I assembled my to-do list with glee, calculating how many chapters I might finish if all went well. I asked the kids to help more, and they did with improved attitudes. I started to feel less like the Lone Ranger and more like Mom.

Heather Trent Beers lives in Grandview, Mo., where she is giggling her way through her latest read.

Resource: family.org
Picture by: Jupiter Images

How to Improve the Memory

2008-01-18T19:23:00.000-05:00

I've been skimming a book on health put out by Uchee Pines Lifestyle Center. There is a particularly interesting section that caught my eye on improving the memory. I find that I'm awfully forgetful these days and have a difficult time with memorization. Also, now that I'm working as a caregiver again, I find myself working with an increased amount of people with dementia and Alzheimer's. I have been doing an interesting study on Alzheimer's. Maybe I can share a bit about that with you sometime in the future. Anyway, I thought I'd list here what steps Uchee Pines shares for things you can do to improve your memory.

a. Observe strict regularity in ALL things

b. Never lie down after a meal. This promotes early senility.

c. Do not crowd too many things into a small amount of time. On the other hand, do not allow time to pass without profitably using it.

d. Country living with strict simplicity is most favorable to learning, as well as to easy recall.

e. Keep all things orderly in your surroundings. Do not keep in your home more things than you are to keep in perfect order. Do not have something on every desk top, table or bookcase. have much ope space on walls, floors, yards, etc.; avoid clutter.

f. Eat nothing between meals or within several hours of going to bed. Intestinal fermentation produces toxins that injure and dull the mind. Use little fluids or liquid foods at meals. Use few dishes or varieties of foods at one meal. Especially avoid harmful combinations such as milk-sugar-egg mixtures, or fruit-vegetable mixtures. Never overeat. Excess nutrients such as potassium cause mental confusion. Excess sodium suppresses norepinephrine production resulting in lack of alertness. With the electroencephalogram (brain wave), we can get an indication of states of alertness. Brain waves are slower after large meals, taller and faster during prayer and in fasting states. Excessive fats of all kinds contribute to mental fogginess.

g. Keep a program of study of new things constantly going. The stretching of the mind to understand the Bible and to memorize portions of it represents the best single mental exercise.
Avoid excesses in all pleasurable pursuits. Over stimulation of sensory nerves sets up a condition causing forgetfulness.

i. Avoid smoking. Smokers have been shown to have poorer memories.

j. Train the mind to dwell on heavenly themes. It is a law of the mind that it assumes the level of those things which occupy it.

Reporting In

2008-01-13T16:58:00.000-05:00

So OK, I'm behind in my blogging again. What can I say... life happens. I do owe you an update on our mini vacation though, don't I? My sister asked me about it a few days ago and has been patiently waiting on the pictures.

We did have a very nice time. We just wished it could have lasted longer. As it turns out, we weren't the only ones with the great idea. There were more people at the lodge than we expected, but thankfully, not crowded. I had envisioned myself being able to sit all alone near the fire, reading or just day dreaming. But, I realize now that was just wishful thinking. I was still able to get some leisurely reading in, just not sitting as close to the fire as I wanted to be. As a family, we played several games together. Sequence, Skip-Bo, Euchre, Ping Pong and Air Hockey to name few. We also were able to drive into Nashville to enjoy some window shopping. Being off-season, many of the little shops were closed, but that's OK. It was fun, even though the temperatures were only in the low teens. We practically had the streets and stores to ourselves.

I'm a bit disappointed in the quality of my pictures. Particularly the ones I took inside the lodge. The lighting was perfect for that romantic ambiance feel, but terrible for getting quality pictures-- at least without the use of a tripod. Had I have used ours, I wouldn't have wound up with such blurry pictures. You need a real steady hand for taking pictures in low lighting. A knowledge of the right settings would probably be pretty helpful too. Guess I should take some time to read the manual, eh?

You Could Be A Winner!

2008-01-06T19:52:00.000-05:00

Thanks to Lisa I've been made aware of this!

A Cowboy’s Wife is having a contest on her food blog! You can win a Hamilton Beach® Stand Mixer and she’ll ship anywhere so everyone is eligible!

The Prize:

Hamilton Beach 4.5-qt. Eclectrics Stand Mixer, Pineapple Yellow

The winner will receive a brand new
Hamilton Beach 4.5-qt. Eclectrics Stand Mixer, Pineapple Yellow!!

About the mixer:
From Hamilton Beach’s “Eclectrics” line, this all-metal stand mixer comes with a host of accessories - a Flat Beater for cakes and cookies, a Dough Hook for bread and a Wire Whisk for whipped cream or pudding. The 4.5-qt. stainless steel bowl comes with a Pouring Shield that helps prevent splattering while in operation. The pouring shield has a built-in chute for adding ingredients. Powered by 400 watts, the stand mixer has a two-way mixing action to ensure all ingredients are incorporated into the mix. The quick-release, tilt-up head assists when removing the bowl. 9 x 14 x 14-in. When you’re ready for a kitchen re-do, don’t call in the carpenters! Instead, “counterscape” your kitchen with Hamilton Beach’s retro-designed, affordably priced electrics in happy, sun-saturated colors. Their “Eclectrics” line includes updates to those classic appliances from the 1950s. All of their “Eclectrics” are available in six colors: Apple Green, Moroccan Red, Pineapple Yellow, Intrigue Blue, Sugar White and Licorice Black.

Safety Tip

2007-12-31T08:08:00.000-05:00

We are preparing to leave, but before I go I wanted to share this informative safety tip with you all.

Before I went back to work part-time, my husband would always fill the van up with gas for me. Now, I do it because I'm out more than I used to be. Just last week when stopping for gas, it occurred to me that I should probably lock my doors because I decided I to leave my purse in the passenger seat while fueling up. Also, since learning that it's not safe to have your cell phone on you while pumping gas, I no longer keep that in my coat pocket now, but rather leave it unattended in the van, near my purse. After watching this video clip, it just confirms that I was doing the right thing. To be even safer, I'll be placing my purse out of sight rather than leaving it in the passenger seat, in the future.

Getting Away

2007-12-30T12:07:00.000-05:00

This week we have set aside a couple of days to get away and gain some needed rest and relaxation. This is particularly true in the case of my hard working husband.

Last week while on a job, he stepped off the edge of a sidewalk and twisted his ankle pretty badly. Thank the Lord, he didn't break it! Unfortunately, this is a more than occasional occurrence for him due to ankle injuries he sustained while playing sports in high school. While the sprained ankle was bad enough, it caused his back to go out of proper alignment and therefore, he is visiting our Chiropractor as I "speak". All this just before our planned getaway. Ugh! I asked him if he wanted to stay home, but he is determined to go. He has been nurturing the ankle for several days now and feels that he'll be just fine. Sometimes I worry about him though. When he's in pain he rarely lets on about it and hides it very well. In the past, this has led me to believe that he was doing OK when in fact, in some situations, he REALLY wasn't. This must be a "man" thing.

Anyway, I've mentioned here before how much our family enjoys going on outdoor retreats; being as close to nature as we possibly can. Since time and money were a factor we needed to choose someplace that wasn't too far from home. We found that Abe Martin Lodge in Brown County State Park fit the bill nicely. From now until the end of February, all Indiana State Parks that offer lodging are having their Winter rates of 2 nights for the price of one. Hooray!

I'm really looking forward to the time away and can't wait to take it easy just sitting in front of the fireplace chatting and reading the copy of Heirloom Farm magazine that my kind-hearted neighbor recently lent me. I also plan to take several pictures. That area is well known for beautiful scenery and last I heard it supposed to snow while we're there. That will just make it all the more beautiful, I'm sure! We'll not be going to any shows at the Little Nashville Opry, but will probably spend a few hours visiting several of the specialty shops along, and surrounding Van Buren Street-- considering my husband's ankle is up to it of course. If not, it's okay. Slow, easy and carefree is what's on tap for this two day respite!

I know that I have a pretty good show of Indiana visitors here at my blog, so the following is just for you. If you've never had the chance to visit the Brown County area and want to know what it's all about, you'll find all the details here. When I return, I'll post some pictures of our time away. Until then-- HAPPY NEW YEAR my fellow blogging friends!

Spunky Speaks Out On Huckabee

2007-12-26T10:15:00.000-05:00

If you're a seasoned homeschooler, you probably have already heard of Spunky. She kept a blog for a long time, and for personal reasons decided to take a sabatical a year ago. Spunky has earned the respect of homeschoolers all over, and recently, homeschoolers have been asking her thoughts about Mike Huckabee, one of the 2008 Presidential candidates. Spunky has been doing her homework on Huckabee and is sharing her thoughts, as well as providing facts that some of us may not be taking the time to dig deeper for.

Since we are a homeschooling family, anything that concerns it is an interest to me. If you too homeschool your children, you may find what Spunky is sharing to be helpful-- or not. It's up to you to decide.

Psalms 103:1

2007-12-18T21:05:00.000-05:00

We got hit by a pretty nasty snow storm over this past weekend (ll inches) and just before I drifted off to sleep I was thanking the Lord for his protection and for the blessing of our home, which is primarily being heated by wood this winter. It's true that not every room is a warm as I've been accustomed to in winters past, but I definitely can't complain. An extra blanket thrown around my shoulders in the evening, as well as on the bed at night is enough to keep me comfortable.

As I laid there in bed, another cold related thought came to mind. I marveled at how amazing it was that the Native American's were able to endure such frigid winter temperatures. Especially since they didn't have the kind of shelter's that we enjoy today. And... have you ever thought about the animals in nature that survive such varied and extreme weather situations throughout their lifetime? Those were just passing thoughts I had. You may think they're a bit silly and elementary, but having thought them made me especially grateful for the provisions the Lord has given to me and my family at this time in our lives.

Are Homeschoolers REALLY Creepy & Kooky? You Decide!

2007-12-17T08:24:00.000-05:00

UPDATE: I don't know what happened to the Youtube video of this, but here is a link where you can view it. This clip is clearer anyway.
Click here>>> "The Homeschool Family"

I'm still here... just trying to balance home life with work life. Even though my job is only part time, I'm struggling to find a daily, normal, routine to our lives at the moment. Some things are getting put on the back burner while other things aren't getting done at all. I'm asking the Lord to guide and lead and to help me focus. I know it can be done.

Meanwhile-- Have you seen this new video that's going around? If you're a homeschooling family, you'll definitely relate and find the humor in it. If the word homeschool is a foreign word to you-- watch and learn. :)

Back In The Saddle Again

2007-11-23T15:00:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving. Our family had a very nice time together. We had way too much to eat, but the food was delicious. My mom shared leftovers with us and we've been enjoying them throughout today. After our meal yesterday, some of us played card games while others enjoyed each others company with conversation and some picture taking. The kids watched a movie, "Ratatouille". I have no idea what it's about, but apparently it was funny in spots because I heard the them laughing out loud from the next room. We had planned to watch the Colts game with my folks that evening, but they don't get the NFL channel, so we decided to just head home. It was getting late anyway.

Well, Comfort Keepers hired me! I've been working a little here and a little there for the past couple of weeks. Since my schedule at work isn't set in stone yet, things at home are sort of hit and miss. Hence, the reason for my blogging absence lately.

Being a caregiver is not foreign to me. I have done it on and off since my early twenties. Oddly enough though, I'm finding that it's like donning an old hat. Working for Comfort Keepers affords me to be blessed many times over. It's a good feeling knowing that even though I don't have any fancy degrees or hold any grand titles, I'm still doing something that's important and needed! Seeing my clients as they smile at me, and greet me warmly is a very satisfying feeling.

My supervisor has been very accommodating with not scheduling me to work on the Sabbath. In fact, before hiring me, I was asked if there were any days that I wouldn't be available and I told them that I couldn't work on Friday (preparation day) or Saturday because of the Sabbath. I also said that I preferred not to work on Sunday, but would work if they needed someone to fill in. So far, they haven't asked me to work on a Sunday, but as winter draws near, I'm sure I'll be called as there are often illnesses, transportation problems and weather related issues that occur during this time of the year.

In closing, I want to say thank you to my friend Celli for being such an encouragement to me as I was waiting to hear from Comfort Keepers. She said all the right things and gave me all the assurance to believe that I was a 'shoe-in'. Thanks Celli! Love ya girl!!

A Thanksgiving Wish

2007-11-21T09:30:00.000-05:00

Thanksgiving
(Lizelia Augusta Jenkins Moorer)

Let us give thanks to God above,
Thanks for expressions of His love,
Seen in the book of nature, grand
Taught by His love on every hand.

Let us be thankful in our hearts,
Thankful for all the truth imparts,
For the religion of our Lord,
All that is taught us in His word.

Let us be thankful for a land,
That will for such religion stand;
One that protects it by the law,
One that before it stands in awe.

Thankful for all things let us be,
Though there be woes and misery;
Lessons they bring us for our good-
Later 'twill all be understood.

Thankful for peace o'er land and sea,
Thankful for signs of liberty,
Thankful for homes, for life and health,
Pleasure and plenty, fame and wealth.

Thankful for friends and loved ones, too,
Thankful for all things, good and true,
Thankful for harvest in the fall,
Thankful to Him who gave it all.

From my family to yours-- May you all have a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving.

As you gather round with those you love, remember to give thanks to the Creator above. For blessings large and small; for the protection and freedoms He still grants to us all. For His soon return where we will spend eternity enjoying a grand fellowship around His table; the table He's so lovingly prepared for you and for me.

Until that day-- God bless you, each and every one!
~Debbie Ann

The Furture of Our Food

2007-11-13T10:43:00.000-05:00

This is very alarming!

Fluoride Damages Your Brain

2007-11-09T10:42:00.000-05:00

1) Fluoride's ability to damage the brain represents one of the most active areas of research on fluoride toxicity today.

2) The research on fluoride and the brain has been fueled by recent human studies from China finding elevated levels of fluoride exposure to be associated with reduced cognitive ability (e.g. reduced I.Q.) in children.

3) The impact of fluoride on children's IQ has been documented even after controlling for children's lead exposure, iodine exposure, parental education and income status, and other known factors that might impact the results (Xiang 2003 a,b).

4) A recent UNICEF-sponsored study reported that in areas of China with endemic iodine deficiency, fluoride exposure during childhood significantly exacerbated the neurological deficits produded by iodine deficiency.

5) The findings of neurological effects in fluoride-exposed humans is consistent with, and strengthened by, recent findings from over 30 animal studies published since 1992. As with the studies on humans, the studies on animals have reported an impairment in learning and memory prorcesses among the fluoride-treated groups.

6) The animal studies have also documented considerable evidence of direct toxic effects of fluoride on brain tissue, even at levels as low as 1 ppm fluoride in water (Varner 1998). These effects include:

-- reduction in nicotinic acetylcholine receptors;
-- reduction in lipid content;
-- impaired anti-oxidant defense systems;
-- damage to the hippocampus;
-- damage to the purkinje cells;
-- increased uptake of aluminum;
-- formation of beta-amyloid plaques (the classic brain abnormality in Alzheimer's disease);
-- exacerbation of lesions induced by iodine deficiency; and
-- accumulation of fluoride in the pineal gland.

KEEP READING...

Autumn's Beauty

2007-11-07T08:36:00.000-05:00

Art by: John Stevens
GicleeArtWorld

The rain falls gently
Quenching the thirst of a landscape
Parched by the rays of the hot summer sun.

The song of the birds is now silenced.
The petals of a once brilliant flower have faded
A bright, azure sky with soft white clouds is gone,
Replaced by the gray dampness of the season.

The caressing breeze of summer
Has turned into the blustering winds of fall.
Leaves, once proudly perched on the limbs of trees,
Now dance gaily through the air,
Brightly colored in the warm tones of autumn.

Children laughing merrily on their way
As they hear the crackling sound of leaves beneath their feet.
A jack-o-lantern sits in the window,
Showing a wide, toothless grin or scowling frown.

The snapping of pitch from a burning log,
The faint scent of pine filling the room.
Flames leaping about as if it were a ballet
Performing for its audience.
The soft, comforting glow of candlelight,
Bringing with it serenity and quiet thoughts.

I sit in amazement watching all that is around me.
Yes, there is a God.
Only He could have made the wonders I see before me.
I will accept the solitude and indifference of winter
So I may anticipate and appreciate
The re- birth of spring.

- Linda Christensen, Autumn's Beauty

The REAL Reasons You Want to Avoid Genetically Modified Foods

2007-11-06T13:28:00.000-05:00

This is a lecture by Jeffrey Smith, author of Seeds of Deception. Here, he summarizes the contents of his book, which explains how genetically modified foods cause health problems and their potential for creating a vast array of unforeseen and surprising illnesses. He also sheds light on how the corruption within the U.S. government, the FDA, and the GMO industry has allowed, and perpetuated, the cover-up.

The video is somewhat lengthy, but if you are concerned about this issue, you won't want to miss it.

A Warning for Christians

2007-11-04T21:53:00.001-05:00

There have been a couple of emails floating around from unknown authors trying to warn Christian families about the movie "The Golden Compass". A movie targeted at children, scheduled to be released on December 7th of this year. I had heard about the movie a couple of months ago and visited the official website to see what all the fuss was about. Let me just say, if you are a Christian and are moviegoers, I strongly suggest you steer clear; REALLY CLEAR! You may be thinking-- "Just who do you think you are"! That's OK if you feel this way and I actually can't blame you if you do, but may I just suggest this: If you're even considering this movie, please do lots of research before you say yes to your kids should they ever ask if they can see it. This way you can't say later, "I had no idea!"

Here is just a small snip-it of something I read regarding the movie. "This movie is based on a the first book of a trilogy by atheist Philip Pullman. In the final book a boy and girl kill God so they can do as they please. Pullman left little doubt about his intentions when he said in a 2003 interview that "My books are about killing God."

Personally speaking, I wouldn't never allow my kids to watch it! I have included below, the mentioned emails for your consideration.

FIRST EMAIL: "There will be a new Children's movie out in December called THE GOLDEN COMPASS. Phillip Pullman, a proud atheist who belongs to secular humanist societies, writes it. He hates C. S. Lewis's Chronicle’s of Narnia and has written a trilogy to show the other side. The movie has been dumbed down to fool kids and their parents in the hope that they will buy his trilogy where in the end the children kill God and everyone can do as they please. Nicole Kidman stars in the movie so it will probably be advertised a lot. This is just a friendly warning that you sure won't hear on the regular TV."

SECOND EMAIL: "I just wanted to inform you what I just learned about a movie that is coming out December 7, during the Christmas season, which is entitled THE GOLDEN COMPASS. It stars Nicole Kidman and it is directed toward children. What is disturbing to me is that this movie is based on the first of a trilogy of books for children called HIS DARK MATERIALS written by Philip Pullman of England.

He's an atheist and his objective is to bash Christianity and promote atheism. I heard that he has made remarks that he wants to kill God in the minds of children, and that's what his books are all about. He despises C.S. Lewis and Narnia, etc. An article written about him said "this is the most dangerous author in Britain" and that Pullman would be the writer "the atheists would be praying for, if atheists prayed." Pullman said he doesn't think it is possible that there is a God and he has great difficulty understanding the words "spiritual" and "spirituality." What I thought was important to communicate is what part of the agenda is for making this picture. This movie is a watered down version of the first book, which is the least offensive of the three books. The second book of the trilogy is THE SUBTLE KNIFE and the third book is THE AMBER SPYGLASS. Each book gets worse and worse regarding Pullman's hatred of God. In the trilogy, a young girl becomes enmeshed in an epic struggle against a nefarious Church known as the Magisterium. Another character, an ex-nun, describes Christianity as "a very powerful and convincing mistake." As I understand it, in the last book, a boy and girl are depicted representing Adam and Eve and they kill God, who at times is called YAHWEH (which is definitely not Allah). Since the movie would seem mild if you viewed it, that's been done on purpose.

They are hoping that unsuspecting parents will take their children to see the movie, that they will enjoy the movie and then the children will want the books for Christmas. That's the hook. Pullman says he wants the children to read the books and decide against God and the kingdom of heaven.

If you decide that you do not want to support something like this, I suggest that you boycott the movie and the books. I googled a synopsis of THE GOLDEN COMPASS. As I skimmed it, I couldn't believe that in a children's book part of the story is about castration and female circumcision."

And now, read what Snopes has to say about the movie.

"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things [are] honest, whatsoever things [are] just, whatsoever things [are] pure, whatsoever things [are] lovely, whatsoever things [are] of good report; if [there be] any virtue, and if [there be] any praise, think on these things." Philippians 4:8

Install a Toiletry Shelf

2007-11-01T18:53:00.000-04:00

Our guest bathroom is relatively small with very little storage space for extra toilet paper, soap, shampoos, toothpastes, etc. While visiting Martha Stewart this evening I saw this neat, over the door shelf. I'm hoping to add one in my home to make life just a little easier. This is one project I know my youngest son will do for me quite happily. I also love the idea of storing my extra bars of soap in a glass container. I don't know why I've never thought of that before!

Make space for supplies over the bathroom door so that they'll be accessible when they need to be replenished. Use wood screws to secure a pair of wooden shelf brackets to either side of the door frame; screw shelf to brackets. The shelf should rest on top of the door molding, which will help support the weight. Keep small bottled items and toilet paper in handled boxes. Bars of soap can be stored, unwrapped, in an airtight glass container.

Catching Up

2007-10-31T10:21:00.000-04:00

Well, it's been a while... did ya miss me? Truth be told, I haven't been very motivated to blog lately. Even so, I've still been visiting your blogs, keeping up with what's been going on with all of you. And such busy, busy people you all are too! :)

Yesterday morning I had a job interview for a part-time job with Comfort Keepers. I only requested 20hrs. per week as my heart very much lies at the hearth of a SAHM. As I was pulling up to the building, where my interview was to take place, my cell phone rang. It was my husband with well wishes and encouraging words. This went a long way to help calm my nerves. He also thanked me for being willing to take an outside job and He wanted me to know that it means a lot to him. This made me feel appreciated and also showed me that he really does understand how much I don't want to take a job away from home. However, I know that it's a necessary at this juncture in our lives, and I take comfort in the fact that my kids are all old enough and responsible enough that I'm not needed here every second of the day. I know that I've trained them well and that they can manage this home and their schoolwork for the most part, all by themselves while I'm away. Besides, the likelihood of them being here for long stretches of time without either myself, or my husband, (he works primarily from our home) is rather slim. One of us will probably be here when the other is gone. I should hear something in a week or two, whether or not I get the job. The interview went very well and I don't expect bad news. I'll keep you updated.

Upon my return home, I felt it was still rather cool in the house so I decided to break the chill by throwing some wood into the stove and start a fire. It didn't take long before things were nice and cozy and I just couldn't seem bring myself to do much in the way of my chores. I decided to sit down and finish up the last few chapters of my book, "The Englisher" by Beverly Lewis. It's the second book in a three part series entitled: Annie's People. I'm not usually one for reading these types of books, but someone suggested it, so I thought I'd check it out from our local library and give it a try. Let's just say that now I'm hooked. See! My daughter caught me in the act. :)

Once finally up and about we needed to get outside and do some more wood splitting as well as a bit of Autumn yard clean-up. My husband was away doing some odd jobs for a lady that calls him when she needs things worked on or fixed. Our youngest son was away helping his granddad on a house that they're getting ready to sell. That left myself, my oldest son and our daughter here at home to get things done. My kids are very good about working on their own without me having to stand over their shoulder every second, but we sometimes still struggle with the motivation part-- getting going. I guess they haven't had the best example in that department eh? (uh em, reading when I should be working) But once they get going the work gets done and they do such a good job!

When my husband got back home, he pitched in and helped with wood splitting. It's a good feeling seeing all those rows of wood just waiting to be tossed in to the stove. There's still plenty more trees to be cut and split in order to get us completely through the winter months, but I'm sure my hard working guys will take care of us, just as they always have.

On a completely different note: Some of you may remember my interest in trying my hand at raising chickens. My husband on the other hand, isn't quite as enthusiastic about the idea as the kids and I are. I thought that I'd do as much research and gain as much information about doing this before I really start talking his ear off about it. Thanks to Nancy Carter and her Homestead e-newsletter, I found the Keeping Chickens Newsletter. It was an interesting read and I'm sure with subsequent letters I'll be getting valuable information so when my husband finally does say yes, (fingers crossed) we'll know what we're doing.

Scarecrow Fun

2007-10-10T13:06:00.001-04:00

There sure is a stark difference between our temperatures of today and that of yesterday! I know a lot of you are having wacky weather too! Yesterday we had the air conditioning running, but by early evening, we were able to open our windows and enjoy a comfortable cool breeze. This morning I arose to chilly temps in the lower 40's. It's now almost 1:30 in the afternoon, and the current temperature 52 degrees. That's quite a drop from yesterday's high of 78 degrees. They say it is supposed to reach 59 today, but with the wind and no sun shining, it sure won't feel it. It's definitely time for some mulled cider, herb tea or hot chocolate.

It's also the time where folks are getting out all of their Fall decorations. I thought I'd put up a fun craft that you can make with the kids. After all, I'm sure they'd like to get in on the act and give their own bedrooms a bit of a seasonal feel too. :)

This craft idea comes from Amanda Formaro. Amanda is the mother of four children. She is also the owner of FamilyCorner.com Magazine. You can subscribe to her free weekly kid's craft newsletter, Busy Little Hands, by visiting her website at Family Corner. Have fun!

Scarecrows not only watch crops and brave the weather, they make great puppets, too! Make one with your kids today and invite their friends over for an afternoon show.

What you'll need:

* Brown paper lunch bag
* White craft glue
* 2 medium wiggle eyes
* 2 feet of ribbon infall colors
* A stir stick
* 2 sheets of newspaper
* Black marker
* Scissors
* Orange foam flower
* Construction paper: white/tan, brown, yellow, pink, orange
* Pattern for hat (you will need an Adobe reader to view the hat pattern)

How to make it:

1. Trace the pattern onto white or tan construction paper. Cut out. Draw some stitches onto the rim and hat top by making tic-tac-toe symbols.

2. Lay the paper bag on a work surface with the flap side facing down. Glue the wiggle eyes in place roughly three inches from the top of the bag.

3. Cut out a triangle from the orange construction paper for the nose. Glue in place slightly below the middle of the eyes.

4. Cut out two circles from the pink construction paper. Glue on either side of the nose, and draw a smile from the bottom of one circle to the other (see photo). Draw a few stitches on the mouth.
5. Use a marker to draw eyebrows above the eyes.

6. Fold yellow construction paper in half, greeting card style. Cut along the fold so you have two pieces. Cut one piece into thin strips. Starting at the top of the bag, glue some strips on so they hang down like hair. Cut some strips shorter for bangs.

7. Cut a strip of brown construction paper to glue onto the hat top as the band. Fringe- or scissor-cut the top of the hat brim piece. Glue the brim to the hat top so it partially covers the brown brim.

8. Glue the yellow foam flower to the hat. Cut out a circle from brown construction paper and glue to the center of the flower.

9. Glue the hat on top of the yellow hair.

10. Carefully fill the bag with crumpled newspaper.

11. Coat the first three inches of the paint stir stick with glue and insert into the bottom of the bag.

12. Crumple the bag around the stir stick, being careful not to let the end of the bag stick to the stirrer.

13. Tie a ribbon around the end of the bag, about two inches above the bottom. Tie the ribbon in a tight knot and then tie into a bow to close the bag.

14. Cut some of the leftover yellow strips in half or thirds and glue them to the stick under the bag.

15. Carry your scarecrow by the stir stick.

Notes:
* You can get paint stir sticks for free at any home improvement store or hardware store. Just visit the paint aisle and ask an employee for a few.
* Dispose of your craft scraps by stuffing them inside your scarecrow before putting the crumpled newspaper in!
* Make your scarecrow a girl by adding eyelashes with your marker and using pink and purple as your colors.

This, as well as other kid friendly seasonal crafts can be found at: KABOOS TM

Our Duty to Lift Up Others

2007-10-05T11:01:00.000-04:00

"She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness." Proverbs 31:26

"Your influence reaches the soul; you touch not a wire but that vibrates back to God. It is your duty to be Christians in the highest sense of the word--"Christlike." It is through the unseen lines that attract you to other minds with which you are brought in contact that may, if you are in constant connection with God, leave impressions that will make you a savor of life unto life. Otherwise, if you are selfish, if you are self-exalted, if you are worldly-minded, no matter what your position, no matter what your experience has been, or how much you know, if you are not having the law of kindness on your lips, sweet fragrance of love springing from your heart, you can do nothing as it ought to be done.

Kindness and love and courtesy are the marks of the Christian. In our association with each other let it be ever remembered that there are chapters in the experience of others that are sealed from mortal eyes; there are sad histories that are written in the books of heaven but are sacredly guarded from prying eyes. There stand registered long, hard battles with trying circumstances, arising in the very homes, that day by day sap the courage, the faith, the confidence, until the very manhood seems to fall to ruins. But Jesus knows it all, and He never forgets. To such, words of kindness and of affection are welcome as the smile of angels; a strong, helpful grasp of the hand of a true friend is worth more than gold and silver. The true, honest expression of a sister, or brother, or friend, given in genuine simplicity, has power to open the door of hearts which need the fragrance of Christlike words and the simple, delicate touch of the spirit of Christ's love."
White: My Life Today, p179

May we each set a goal every day to encourage others in every possible way that we can think of. I think the perfect place to start is in our own homes with our children and our spouse. What a great place to practice, don't you think?

Have a Happy Sabbath all!

Our Weekend In Ohio

2007-10-04T20:45:00.000-04:00

My husband didn't have to preach last Sabbath (9/29/07) and he wanted to take the family somewhere special. We always enjoy visiting different zoos and therefore look for places that aren't too far from where we live. We had talked about going to the Columbus Zoo in years past, but never quite got around to making the trip. That is, until last weekend. We had a fun-filled day that Sunday. We saw lots of animals and learned some new things along the way. For me, the highlight of the day was getting a chance to feed the Rainbow Lorikeet birds. Lorikeets are birds found in Australia. They're related to cockatoos and parrots. If you are lucky to live near a zoo where a lorikeet exhibit is available, make plans to buy a bit of nectar so you can feed them. They are tame and quite fun to watch as the eat right out of your hand-- well, sort of. (You'll know what I mean when you take a look at the pictures).

On Sabbath, we started out at Deleware State Park. This is where we ate our lunch and then took a walk down by the lake afterwards. We also drove around the park a bit to see what else we might like to do. However, there really wasn't much else to do there, seeing that we didn't have our own boat and we weren't camping there. So, we decided to head back toward Columbus to try another park we'd seen on the way.

Highbanks Metro Park is in Lewis Center, OH. It's a beautiful park! They offer seven different hiking trails, ranging from easy, moderate and difficult. There are two large picnic areas with tables, grills and shelters. There's two playgrounds, horseshoe courts and an area for volleyball. The Nature Center is especially neat. Just outside of the rear doors you step out onto a boardwalk that leads to an observation deck. That deck connects to Overlook Trail. Due to time constraints however, we had to choose a shorter trail. The park closed at dusk and we didn't arrive there until a couple hours before sunset. By the time we were done in the Nature Center it was too late to take a long trail.

If you enjoy being out in nature and you're in that area of Ohio, be sure and stop by for a visit. I'm sure you won't be disappointed. We were a little sorry that we didn't stop at this park first. Next time we will. [smile]

If you'd like to see pictures of our short trip, click here. It will open up a new page (give it a moment to download) where you can view the scrapbook that I put together of our special family weekend.

Small Town Living

2007-10-03T07:55:00.000-04:00

I learned about this on-line magazine, Small Town Living from Amy. If you like to read about simple living in small town America, you'll really enjoy this magazine. They've been around for almost a year now so there are plenty of back issues available.

It's free so why not check it out in your spare time. The Fall issue has just been released.

I'm Invisible

2007-10-02T13:22:00.000-04:00

This was sent to me by my mom today. Perhaps you've seen it? For me, it came at a perfect time as I've been feeling a bit inadequate the past few weeks in the motherhood department-- Thanks much mom!!

Ladies, if you're feeling a bit invisible these days, maybe Charlotte's words will bring you the encouragement you need. Keep your chin up, remain faithful and keep leaning on the Lord! He will supply where each of us lack.

Print Supplied by: Fulcrum Gallery

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I'm thinking, "Can't you see I'm on the phone?"

Obviously not. No one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all. I'm invisible.

Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this? Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, "What time is it?" I'm a satellite guide to answer, "What number is the Disney Channel?" I'm a car to order, "Pick me up right around 5:30, please."

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude -- but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going ... she's going ... she's gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England . Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well.

It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself as I looked down at my out-of-style dress; it was the only thing I could find that was clean. My unwashed hair was pulled up in a banana clip and I was afraid I could actually smell peanut butter in it. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully
wrapped package, and said, "I brought you this."

It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe . I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription: "To Charlotte , with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees."

In the days ahead I would read -- no, devour -- the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: No one can say who built the great cathedrals-- we have no record of their names. These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, "Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof? No one will ever see it."

And the workman replied, "Because God sees."

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, "I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become."

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction. But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, "My mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand-bastes a
turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table." That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home.
And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, "You're gonna love it there."

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.

"Where I'm From"

2007-09-27T07:50:00.000-04:00

Print Courtesy of: Art.com

I am from endless hours at the neighborhood swimming pool; from playing organized softball and attending a two room schoolhouse.

I am from the blizzard of '78 and from hot chocolate with doughnuts after sledding over Happy Hollow's hill.

I am from shag green carpet and my black beanbag chair; from Sesame Street, Mr. Rodgers, The Brady Bunch and Eight is Enough.

I am from Weebles that Wobble, from a Light that is Bright; from a playing card attached to the tire spokes of my banana seat bike and fights with my sister.

I am from a rusty old swing set, a failed vegetable garden attempt and a riding mower I once drove up a tree in my parent's backyard.

I am from TV dinners; from Dad singing with the Statler's while watching "Nashville Now" and Mom playing the church organ every Saturday morning as we fanned ourselves with cardboard fans with wooden stick handles.

I am from Grandma's Stew and Dumplings, from Nanny's Beef n' Noodles and Mom's Tuna over Toast.

I am from fun summer vacations and Pathfinder Fairs, from company picnics at Indiana's "beach", from snowy Thanksgivings and Christmases past that are with me forever, but now out of reach.
I am from spankings from Dad when I got outta line, from "I Don't Know!"; from "Can't Never Did Nuthin"; and "Aint's Not a Word!"

This was my own version of a Poem done by George Ella Lyons called "Where I'm From". I really liked doing it. I struggled a bit starting out, but as I began writing down things I remembered from my childhood, it all just came together. Some ideas you can use are: Family Traditions, foods you had growing up, a favorite place in the neighborhood or on your property, family sayings/things that were said in the house, a favorite place/room in your house.

I've seen it around on other's blogs so it's not a new idea by any means. I encourage you to give it a try if you haven't done so already. It'll bring back some of your childhood memories, guaranteed! Here's a template to help give you a boost.

If you do decide to play along, please leave me a comment so I can come check yours out.

New Recipe

2007-09-26T11:37:00.000-04:00

My husband is (IMO) not typical when it comes to things he likes to eat for breakfast. The rest of us are completely satisfied with the normal fare of fruit, pancakes, waffles, French toast, hot/cold cereal, toast and the like. My sweet man however, prefers big dinner type breakfasts that will carry him through for 5-6 hrs at a time. He has told me that pancakes and similar meals just don't do that for him. One of his favorite breakfasts consist of scrambled tofu, fried potatoes and toast. Actually, any meal that has potatoes of some kind is a winner for him. Thankfully, we all like that too!

Being that we are vegetarian (leaning more toward vegan) it has been rather difficult for me to come up with a dish that hits that special spot for my sweetie. The other day I found a recipe and was very hopeful that I'd be able to add this one to our regular menu plan. As I read through the ingredients it had brown rice AND potatoes. Two dishes he loves... this one had potential!

I quickly printed it out and set out to make breakfast. We were sitting there enjoying each other's company, eating away, and the next thing I hear from sweetie is: "I like this, this is really good!" Then the children chimed in with similar sentiments. That was music to my ears! Needless to say, I'll be fixing this dish again, and regularly.

HURRY-UP HEARTY HASH

2 C. cooked brown rice
1/2 C. sauteed onions
1/2 C. chopped celery
1/4 C. brewers yeast flakes
2 C. shredded raw potatoes, unpeeled
2 T. oil
1/2 t. salt
1/8 t. garlic powder (optional)
2 T. soy sauce or Bragg's Liquid Aminos

Wash the potatoes well and remove any spots. Shred on a medium shredder. Combine all ingredients. Stir well enough to mix. Place into a lightly oiled skillet on medium heat. Cover and let cook until nicely browned, about 10 minutes. Scrape from the bottom of skillet and turn. Cover and let cook 10 minutes longer. Stir and reduce heat, let cook an additional 5 minutes. Serve.

Servings: 6

Sunday's Hog Roast/Family Reunion

2007-09-25T13:13:00.001-04:00

Photo Courtesy of: FulcrumGallery

This past Sunday we journeyed three hours from home to go to my husband's Aunt Mayme Ruth's farm for her annual Hog Roast. This is always a big event where, not just family, but area neighbors and church goers are invited to attend too. I took vegetarian dishes of course. Things that would go over well with the meat eaters. Surprisingly, my huge bowl of potato salad was the only one there. I also took a pasta salad, a big pot of green beans with garden potatoes mixed in, and a bit of chunky applesauce. There was so much food, no one could have possibly tasted everything.

September 23rd was chosen this year because it was Aunt Mayme Ruth's 89th birthday. You wouldn't know it to watch her though. She's always right in the middle of all the activity and can keep up with the best of'em.

There were games of horseshoes, football and a few rounds of volleyball going on. Of course, if you're a Colts fan, you might have been seen indoors from time to time catching a glimpse to see what the score was. The littlest ones among us had fun jumping in the inflatable bounce house nearby. As for me, I just had a wonderful time laughing and visiting with all of my husband's cousins and catching up on the events of each other's lives since we gathered together last year.

Something that always catches my attention is the closeness of Aunt Mayme Ruth's daughters. She has five girls, (two boys) and they are just the best of friends. For the most part, they all live nearby to one another and from our talks I found that they do a lot of things for, and with each other. I've never once seen a negative look or heard a negative word between any of them. That's a wonderful example and exactly how it should be! :)

Thanks for everything `Aunt Mayme Ruth, Nancy, Ellen, Faye, Louann, Molly, David and Garrell!`

My favorite dish served that day:
(made by my mother in-law)
SWEET AND SOUR "BURGER" LOAF

INGREDIENTS:
1/2 stick margarine
1 c. chopped onion
4. c. dried, herb stuffing mix
1 1/4 c. water
1 1/2 c soy cheddar cheese
4 eggs (may substitute with soft tofu)
1 t. garlic powder
1/2 t. sage
1 20 oz. Can Worthington Veg. Burger (may sub. with Morn. Star Veggie Crumbles)

Saute' onions in margarine. Add to remaining ingredients and mix throughly. Place in greased 2qt. baking dish.

GLAZE:
1/2 c. catsup
1/2 c. brown sugar
1/2 c. hot water

Mix all ingredients together and pour over top of loaf, spreading evenly. Bake at 350 degrees for 45 minutes.

Seasonal Delights

2007-09-20T17:59:00.001-04:00

I just heard the news and had to share! Seasonal Delights is offering a free subscription to their on-line magazine for one year. In order to get yours, you need to dash over to their website and send in your request. The free offer expires at the end of this month-- so hurry! Oh yeah, and spread the word will ya? :)

Washing Windows with My Husband

2007-09-20T15:27:00.000-04:00

photo courtesy of: AllPosters

You on the outside, the hard side,
Your ladder against the house leaning,
And I on the inside, the safe side,
Together the same window are cleaning.

The dirty film that you spray and wipe
Is not the same as mine,
For each window in this small still house
Bears two kinds of grime.

Yours on the outside comes from the yard,
And the trees, and the windswept street,
While mine results from meals prepared,
And the warmth of our central heat.

So we spray and wipe, each on a side
Till rag and window squeak,
Then standing back to survey our work,
Are dismayed by an overlooked streak.

This flaw which mars the now clean glass
Is it on your side or mine?
It really doesn’t matter, Love, we
Will both spray again and shine.

And now it gleams pristinely bright,
As though no glass were there.
And every window, inside and out,
Receives the selfsame care.

While working on this irksome task,
A thought occurs to me.
That in a way, this job portrays
Our life as it should be.

You on the outside, the hard side;
Up against the world and its grime.
Working and struggling and striving,
So that our bright windows may shine.

And I on the inside, the safe side,
Keeping warmth and comfort there.
Yet sometimes when trying our hardest,
That flaw appears somewhere.

Is it on your side or my side, my Darling?
Does it matter who’s wrong or who’s right?
We’ll rub and we’ll scrub and we’ll polish,
And together we’ll let in God’s light.

Poem by: Alice Mae Heslin

October is Pastor Appreciation Month

2007-09-17T22:07:00.000-04:00

When I started blogging I didn't really have any grand ideas about what I was going to share or even what 'theme' my blog would have. It wasn't until I found Peggy's blog that I even became interested in blogging in the first place. Often, after visiting her, I went away feeling encouraged; determined to be a better daughter of God, a better wife and a better mother. I found her to be a good example of the woman in Titus 2:3-5.

I have occasionally prayed for such a woman to be sent into my life. Someone that I could go to and seek advice from. Someone who would pray with and for me in times of discouragement and also rejoice with me in the good times. I need someone who has already traveled the twisting, winding road that I seem all too often, to get lost on. God has not answered my prayer as of yet. Quite possibly because I haven't been diligent enough in my prayer life asking for her. I'm sure He's got someone special in mind though. So, I wait.

I do enjoy blogging, but most times I don't feel like I have anything all that worthy to blog about. I'm a simple gal, not having fancy or flowery words to make the everyday things in life seem interesting or exciting. Most times I don't feel capable of sharing my opinion on various topics, discussions or events going on in the world. Yes, I have learned a few things in my almost 39yrs. of life, but I figure everyone else has already learned them too. So, I generally just sit back and glean from others and only post things that are rather simplistic in nature and probably pretty boring to most.

By now you're probably wondering what all that babble has to do with the title of my blog. I guess nothing. It's just me trying to share a bit of myself with you. And if you continue to read, you'll learn something else about me too.

I guess you could say that I have some experience with knowing how important it is to show your Pastor how much you appreciate him. I know because-- I am a Pastor's wife! Surprised?! I know I haven't mentioned it here before and truth be told, I still have reservations about sharing it. But as with most things I do, there's a reason. Sometimes it's not always a good reason, but there usually IS a reason. In this case it's Pastor Appreciation Month.

Most of you that stop by Seasons of the Heart don't know me personally. For me, this blog has been an escape of sorts. I feel like I can come here and not be constantly judged or scrutinized for every single thing I say or do. Of course I know that the Lord is watching me and I'm careful not to bring shame to His name. However, when people find out that I'm a Pastor's wife I tend to be placed in that ever dreaded fishbowl. You may think it terrible of me to want to keep that part of my life private, but my reasons, however strange some think they might be, can only be qualified by past experiences in my life that are personal and too painful to share publicly.

I have only spoken to a handful of people about the day my husband approached me with the news that he felt God was calling him into full-time ministry. My husband was already an Elder in our local church at that time, and our pastor, who was also our friend, recommended my husband for the lay pastor training program in our area. I remember, to this very day, my exact response to my husband. I said: "You may feel like the Lord is calling you to be a Pastor, but He's NOT calling me to be a Pastor's wife!" I know, that wasn't very supportive was it? At the time, I didn't want to be supportive. I was scared to death! What if someone were to ask me biblical questions? After all, I would be expected to know everything about the Bible. What if someone sought council for a personal problem and asked me to pray with them-- alone? What if I was asked to lead a women's group or fill some other office that I felt unworthy to fill? What if someone from the congregation came over to our house and found that it was untidy? What if I had to prepare a meal for them at the spur of the moment? Oh yeah, and our children weren't perfect and I certainly wasn't perfect!! Nope, I was not willing to subject myself to the discomforts of being a Pastor's wife. Did you catch how many times I used the word "I"?

I have grown since then and have learned that being perfect is a goal and not a given. I still don't feel adequate, but the Lord is making up for where I lack. There have been many a time when I've messed up. Not just little mistakes mind you... big ones! I pray though that I've learned from each one, and that those mistakes won't be repeated in the future.

One of the things I've learned as the wife of a Pastor is that my job is not primarily to be there for the church. I am to be the wife that my husband needs me to be. That's not to say that I'm not involved with what goes on in the church. I have filled several positions over the years. It just so happens that right now, I'm not needed in some of those areas and this has given me the chance to concentrate on the home more. What my husband needs from me is that I be supportive and submissive. In order for him to fulfill his calling, I must do what's expected of me at home. He needs me to pray for him, listen to him, speak encouraging words to him, keep our home, care for our children, to love him-- and all with a humble heart and a willing spirit. Hmm, I see I have some more work to do because as I said before, I'm not perfect-- yet! :)

Recently I read a statement that Lynette Kemp (another Pastor's wife) had to share and I must admit, that for the most part, I have subscribed to this line of thinking for myself. She states: "I realize my limitations so I have made it a rule that I avoid giving advice and defer theological questions to my husband, but I can make a contribution in my own way with the talents God has given me."

Being in full-time Ministry, like many other things in life, is not easy. However, ministry life carries different sets of challenges that you wouldn't normally encounter in other job arenas.
If you are ever curious to know what kinds of challenges your pastor has to deal with, I encourage you to read articles or books that deal with that very subject. Or, better yet, determine to befriend your Pastor and his family... get to know them as people. In time, you'll start to see and understand more clearly.

Pastors have left the ministry for numerous reasons, but among them are: they don't feel supported or valued by their church congregation. They get discouraged, beat down, and it brings on much stress and sometimes burnout. Not only does this affect your pastor, but their family as well. It's important that you realize that your Pastor needs not only your support at church, but your friendship outside of church as well. Please pray for your Pastor, and don't be afraid to let him know you are doing so. (and don't forget to include their wife and children if they have them.) This will go a long way in lifting their spirits.

Of course there are many ways in which you can show appreciation for your Pastor and you can find lots of them by doing an on-line search. But to help you out, I have listed a few just to get you started. And remember... you don't have to wait until October begin. Make a point to show your support year-round. :)

Flood your pastor's mailbox with cards. Choose a week and get the word out quietly...this pastor appreciation idea works best if it's a surprise. You could choose a week that you know will be especially difficult for your pastor. Or, flood his mailbox while he is away on vacation or at a conference so that he is welcomed home by an avalanche of greetings.

Have a plaque made with an inscription (such as):

In Deepest Appreciation of
[Pastor's Name] and [His or Her] Family
for Sacrificial Service to the Body of Jesus Christ at
[Church Name]
October [Year]

Pastors feel appreciated when their families are cared for. Take the pastor's kids to a water park. Or pick them up and go out for bowling and pizza. Take the kids shopping for school supplies before the start of school in the Fall. Upgrade the family computer or pay for high speed internet access.

Give the gift of special memories. This is the perfect gift for any time. Or, start an annual tradition. Each year on the same date give your pastor a photo book that chronicles the previous year’s events.

Give the most practical pastor gift of all: a gift that allows your pastor to choose exactly what he or she wants! Give them a Walmart Appreciation Gift Card! Or, other similar card.

The perfect pastor gift is something that can save him both time and money. Great bible study software can do both. Good bible software contains many of the books that pastors normally purchase to help them with their studies. And by putting all those books within a click of a mouse saves time.

Pastor Gift Ideas for the Entire Family: What does your pastor's family like to do for fun?

Bowling gift certificate
Pizza gift certificate
State park vehicle sticker
Miniature golf certificate
Loan them your camper, RV, or boat
Prepare a picnic lunch (call first)
State or County fair tickets
Loan them your timeshare
High speed internet

Pastor Gift Ideas for Both the Pastor and His Spouse

An extravagant wedding anniversary celebration
An overnight at a Bed-n-Breakfast
A Pastor's and wives retreat
Babysitting
Gift certificate to a restaurant
An extra weekend off to visit family or friends

Simple/Practical Pastor Gift Ideas: (Simple gifts are great for giving any time...for no special reason!)

Restaurant Gift Certificates
Greeting Cards
Take the pastor's kids to the beach or other outing with your family
Prepare supper for the pastor's family (call first)
Tickets to a local community event
Pay a utility bill
Give a certificate for a free oil change in his car
Take some buckets and a vacuum over to the pastor's house and wash and clean out their vehicle
Mow the pastor's lawn (unless he prefers to do it himself)
Tires for his car
Seal his driveway
Put a new roof on his house
Replace a broken window
Diapers for a new baby
Pay for a new suit
Pay for the kid's music lessons
Pay for the kids to attend summer camp
A gas card

Free Hugs

2007-09-17T14:55:00.001-04:00

What do ya'll think of this guy? Do you think he's nuts or would you oblige him?

Free Hugs Campaign

Smilebox

2007-09-16T19:49:00.000-04:00

I found this "free" digital scrapbook service. It's a fun way to present and send pictures to friends and family. The free version has fewer options than the pay version of course, but I wanted to play around with it first to see if I like it enough to buy in. I'm still playing... :)

This is my daughter during her preadolescence years.

Click to play | Make your own Smilebox

Momsence

2007-09-16T10:47:00.000-04:00

*UPDATE* I stand corrected-- the music she sings to is called the William Tell Overture. That should tell you how much I know about classical music... even though I do like to listen to it.

My friend sent me this funny snip-it of Christian stand-up comedian, Anita Renfroe. She's put some fun lyrics to the Lone Ranger theme song. I find her style of comedy to be refreshing, and if you're a mom, I'm sure you'll appreciate this too. :)

LYRICS:
by Anita Renfroe

Get up now, get up now, get up out of bed,
Wash your face, brush your teeth, comb your sleepy head.
Here’s your clothes and your shoes, hear the words I said,
Get up now, get up and make your bed.
Are you hot, are you cold, are you wearing that?
Where’s your books and your lunch and your homework at?
Grab your coat and your gloves and your scarf and hat.
Don’t forget, you’ve gotta feed the cat.
Eat your breakfast,
the experts tell us it’s the most important meal of all,
Take your vitamins so you will grow up one day to be big and tall.
Please remember the orthodontist will be seeing you at three today,
Don’t forget your piano lesson is this afternoon so you must play.
Don’t shovel, chew slowly, but hurry, the bus is here,
Be careful, come back here, did you wash behind your ears?
Play outside, don’t play rough, would you just play fair?
Be polite, make a friend, don’t forget to share,
Work it out, wait your turn, never take a dare,
Get along, don’t make me come down there.
Clean your room, fold your clothes, put your stuff away,
Make your bed, do it now, do we have all day?
Were you born in a barn? Would you like some hay?
Can you even hear a word I say?
Answer the phone, Get off the phone,
Don’t sit so close, turn it down, no texting at the table.
No more computer time tonight,
Your ipod’s my ipod if you don’t listen up.
Where you going and with whom and what time do you think you’re coming home?
Saying thank you, please, excuse me, makes you welcome everywhere you roam.
You’ll appreciate my wisdom someday
when you’re older and you’re grown.
Can’t wait til you have a couple little children of your own.
You’ll thank me for the council I gave you so willingly,
But right now I thank you not to roll your eyes at me.
Close your mouth when you chew, we’d appreciate,
Take a bite, maybe two, of the stuff you hate.
Use your fork, do not burp or I’ll set you straight.
Eat the food I put upon your plate.
Get an A, get in the door, don’t be smart with me,
Get a grip, get in here or I’ll count to three,
Get a job, Get a life, get a PhD, get a dose of...
I don’t care who started it,
You’re grounded until you’re 36,
Get your story straight
And tell the truth for once for heaven sake.
And, if all your friends jumped off a cliff, would you jump to?
If I’ve said once I’ve said it at least a thousand times before,
That you’re too old to act this way,
It must be your father’s DNA.
Look at me when I am talking, stand up straighter when you walk.
A place for everything, and everything must be in place.
Stop crying or I’ll give you something real to cry about.
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Brush your teeth, wash your face, get your pj’s on.
Get in bed, get a hug, say a prayer with Mom.
Don’t forget I love you (kiss)
And tomorrow we will do this all again
because a Mom’s work never ends.
You don’t need the reason why,
Because, Because, Because, Because,
I said so, I said so, I said so, I said so.
I’m the Mom, the Mom, the Mom, the Mom, the Mom!
Ta-Da!

This and That

2007-09-11T11:49:00.000-04:00

As you can see, I've been working on a new layout for my blog. Unfortunately, because I REALLY don't know what I'm doing, I had to do everything the old fashioned way-- by cut and paste. I tried and tried, to no avail to put the new codes into my old blog so that I could have sidebars, both on the right and left, but no matter what I did, I kept getting an error message. That's when I decided to create a new one; same name (Seasons of the Heart), just add the number 2 at the end. So for those of you who have been gracious enough to add me to your blogroll, would you please make that small little change so that folks will be led here? Thanks a million!

Well, I was just saying to my husband yesterday, how I couldn't wait till the weather was cool enough that I would be able to open the windows for an entire day and not have to turn around in the afternoon, close them up again, just so we could turn on the air conditioning. It looks like I'm getting my wish. This morning I woke up to a cloudy, breezy, day with temperatures in the upper 50's. According to our weather man we're going to get not one, not two, but three cold fronts pass through our area. He said that by tomorrow we'll be waking up to goose bump temperatures. Looks like I better take out the sweaters and the jackets and have everyone try them on. It just might be that some of us have grown out of last year's and we'll have to make a trip to town. I'm sure the kids won't mind. :)

I've got a lot to do the next couple of days as we are expecting a friend to arrive on Thursday and stay with us until sometime on Friday. I planned on getting started with everything yesterday, but got sidetracked with something my sister put me on to. It all started when she found a site called Find A Grave. It's a site where you can go to look up family (or friends) who have died. If you don't see who you're looking for, you can create a free account and add your loved one, including pictures if you want to.

Our grandparents weren't listed and since I didn't know all of the data, I picked up the phone and started making calls. First to my parents, who then directed me to two of my Aunts. While talking to one of them she began reading to me some interesting facts that fascinated me. Things I didn't know about my relatives before. Well, one thing has led to another and now I've decided that it would be a great thing to create a family tree. I want to document as much as I can learn for our children so that they will know about their heritage. For some reason, I hadn't been very interested in that before, but having learned such interesting facts about my early relatives, now has me excited to learn more. My sister told me about ancestry.com and I spent a good deal of my afternoon yesterday adding all the information that I had. Unfortunately, that site only offers a temporary free trial. After the trial period is over, if you want to continue to use their service, you have to pay for a membership. I don't want to do that. By accident, while searching for some information about family heritages, I stumbled upon 'My Heritage' which has a free download that I've decided to use instead. I stayed up way too late last night re-entering (almost) everything into the new program. So far, I like it as it has some of the same nice features that ancestry.com has.

Last week the Lord surprised us with a tremendous blessing. I took my kids to the dentist (which they hadn't seen in well over two years) and I knew that the dentist was going to tell me that two of my kids, in particular, were going to need braces. The kids however, understand that due to our financial circumstances that we just can't afford to pay for braces and the likelihood of us being able to do so anytime soon, is slim to none.

When the kids got through with their exams and cleanings I was called back to speak with the Dentist. He said that their teeth looked real good except for the fact that he wanted to put braces on my oldest and youngest. Before I could even say a word to him, in his next breath he said, "and I'm going to take care of that for you, you don't need to pay a thing." I was so shocked and just couldn't believe my ears. All I could say is, "Are you serious?" He assured me that I heard him right and that he was putting braces on them at absolutely no cost to us. PRAISE THE LORD!! He did state though that there were some things he would expect of the kids. He said that #1 They are to keep their teeth clean. #2 They are be thankful. And #3, They are to do whatever he tells them to do. I think we can handle those terms without any trouble at all! [big smile]